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Motivational Speaker
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A New Thought
Process-Sales Training
Subject:
Sales, Success,
Overcoming Rejection
Victor Gonzalez
What is it about selling that makes you afraid?
Do you get nervous at the hint of having to sell? Is it the fear of rejection
that scares you? Is it the fear of not being able to communicate
effectively?
Define Your Fear. What is it about selling that makes you afraid? Next question,
how did you develop this fear? What is it based on?
a) Many people fear sales because they’re afraid of being rejected as I mention.
b) Others simply fear being the center of attention; especially when giving a
presentation in front a large group of people.
c) Some fear selling because they’re simply unprepared to answer tough questions
or don’t have a deep understanding of the product or service they’re selling.
d) Could it be you don’t believe in the product or service your selling?
e) Other _______________________________________________
Why do your fear selling? Circle one before you proceed.

Checking Your Premise. Now that you selected, I want you to check the
premise of your answer. In other words, I want you to question the validity of
your fear. If you chose C, for example, then your fear isn’t selling; it
has more to do with being unprepared and the potential ‘shame’ of being exposed
in public. Take the necessary steps to learn the product; this confidence in
your knowledge will minimize your fear. If you chose B, you have to question why
you’re afraid of getting up in front of others. Did you have a bad experience
when you were younger? Or, are you still programmed by the “children should be
seen and not heard’ parental reminder? To overcome the fear, you must first
check the premise (validity) of why you hold that fear. No one every died from
giving a sales presentation...at least not to my knowledge.
Like What You Sell. I can’t emphasize this enough. When you sell what you
love, you're selling from a position of belief. When you believe in something
strongly, that enthusiasm squeezes out the fear. Are you selling something your
really believe in or are you selling in order to get a paycheck? If the answer
is the latter, you may be successful selling, but you’ll never achieve a true
level of success (i.e., making money doing what you love). If you don’t truly
believe in what you’re selling, you will always be selling from a position of
doubt. Doubt breeds fear. Seek out products you love to sell.
Measure Success Over Time. Many trainers advocate measuring your
successes on a daily basis. Let’s get real here. Some of my days are full of
setbacks making measuring success on daily basis painful. Daily actions are just
minor events leading up to the main event; the sale. Don’t measure minor events,
measure main events. A runner doesn’t count how many running steps it took to
get to the finish line, he instead focuses on getting there! Stay focus on the
main event, the sale, and not the day-to-day ups and downs.
Small Elephant Bites. Remember, the only way to eat an elephant is one
bite at a time. Begin with small attainable objectives, than move on to larger
ones. Build momentum.
Indicators. When you succeed or have a win, take a mental inventory of
how it came about. Analyze in your mind the steps you took to manifest this win.
When things don’t go well, do the same thing; analyze your thoughts and actions
and ask, "What should I have done differently?". Setbacks are indicators or
guideposts on the road to sales success.
Don’t Take It Personal. Earl Nightengale once said that success plays no
favorites. Success only favors those who persist and don’t give up. Selling is
about persistence. Persistence is about not taking rejection personally. When
clients or people refuse to buy from you, learn to ask “Why?”. And no matter the
response you get back from the customer, learn to depersonalize it and then
learn from it. Only sissies take things personally (don’t be a sales sissy)!
Necessary Component: There is one eternal truth about this free market we
call capitalism…selling keeps the economy moving. Selling is the grease that
lubricates the economic machine and keeps all its moveable parts in motion. From
this moment on, as a salesperson, I want you to view your profession as the
necessary component for keeping this economy going. I want you to see purpose in
your profession. Purpose squeezes out fear in order to make room for enthusiasm.
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© 2003. Victor Gonzalez. All Rights in All Media Reserved. Victor Gonzalez is a
sales trainer and motivational coach. To learn more or to contact Victor
directly, please visit
www.thelogicofsuccess.com
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